Nobel Bar Mitzvah, Bat Mitzvah Bride, parents are excited,
Birthday 12 (daughter) or 13 (white) is already in sight, thoughts go round in the head: which way to celebrate? How to give content and meaning to an event? What place of the traditional ceremony? How to adjust the skills and features special celebration of joy owner? Who to invite? Can be original or adapt ourselves to neighbors and friends? How to share the family preparing for? Tradition or Innovation? Synagogue or hall? And of course, how much effort and resources spent on the festivities ...
Bar or Bat Mitzvah at hand is a unique family event. Seam line where you are, between childhood and adulthood, makes the joint family celebration event, which with joy are the children and parents alike. No event partners outside your family (as in organizing a wedding) and did not accompany him grief separation or recovery of health, like other life ceremonies. This is a rare opportunity to formulate and design a family ritual - and according to expectations - though you instill important values, with respect and wishes of each of you - young people and adults, through an experiential encounter with Israel's heritage resources.
Adolescence and often accompanied by friction and tension within the family against the backdrop of adolescent rights and responsibilities, expectations and disappointments, consideration and responsibility. Although the modern world of the 12th and 13th marriage far more financial responsibility livelihood. However, this is the age where physical abilities, emotional and increasing rationality and develops independent personality, not always coexisted with the aspirations of parents. Event bar and bat mitzvahs encourage you to be aware of these processes, to talk about what is happening and make decisions about the future. This is a golden opportunity to turn the focus of friction adolescence the focus of a celebration, a ceremony that allows the entire family to express joy, appreciation and pride in the changes occurring in the life of the adolescent.
Different cultures in various ways were found to mark the events of puberty. In most cases, included at the introduction to the history and customs of the society from which a man comes and fathers and mothers of the nation. That makes the adolescent to be part of not only the private family, but also from society, community and the people. Saturated exile people and campaigns like the Jewish people this investigation all the more relevant, since almost every family, any grandparents, have experienced their own transitions and periods of geographic identity design. Great Indian tribes and African initiation ceremonies and physical maturation of hunting, swimming and fighting various tests belonging courage or adolescent's sexuality (and sometimes teenage). Jewish culture is centered on books - the Bible and Talmud. Therefore, the 'courage test' and 'rite of passage, offered by her focus on the resilience of the boy and girl to the public, as they call out the open Torah or sermon about legacy issues. This is also the connected to generations ahead of adolescents value of learning in the center of their lives.
12 years old white girls and age 13 (the - the assumption that girls mature emotionally and physically just before the boys the same age), are Jewish culture age 'team. That is, the age in which boys and girls join the public debt subject to moral, social and spiritual. The celebration of the joy and independence of adolescence combined with the demand from the boy and the girl Amos on their young shoulders, the two thousand year-old Jewish heritage. This age level Hiubchma commandments positive level equal to any adult. For example you can say kiddush on Shabbat meal or wine and Havdalah on Saturday night, can lead to the summons before a shared meal grace, you can light the menorah at Hanukkah Central, and, if you are familiar with the particular order of prayers, you will serve as cantors at the synagogue. For some of the commandments (such as kiddush on Shabbat, Chanukah candle lighting, reading the Book of Esther) worth of girls Ahioven level to that of boys, so you can find those possible way to mark a bat mitzvah ceremonies